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Q: What’s better the Beaches resort in Negril or the Beaches Resort in Ocho Rios and why?
I have to make a quick decision by Monday. I can stay at the Beaches Resort in Ocho Rios for $1300 less than the Beaches Resort in Negril but I want to stay where we will have the best time. I have a 13 year old boy who I want to make sure is happy. We also want to be close to the excursions (horse back riding and ATV’s). I would like good snorkeling and scuba too.

A: With the 13 yod go for Ocho Rios. Lots of good things to do and the savings will let you do them.
Dunns river falls (take GOOD water shoes with you so you do not have to pay for them there) Discovery Bay, Zip line tour was what my boys loved the best. Lots of snorkeling and if your PADI card is up to date lots of diving too.

Q: Can I ask for an upgrade at another resort when checking in at Disney World?
My boyfriend and I booked our Disney vacation for February 8th to February 15th. We go every year in February. Last year we decided to stay at the Caribbean Beach resort. When we were checking in (at about 3:30) we were informed that we had to be “bumped” to another resort. They wouldn’t give us an exact reason as to why. However, the “bump” ended up being in our favor. They put us up at the Old Key West resort in a one bedroom villa. WOW!!! It was amazing…full kitchen, living room, large bedroom, washer/dryer, and HOT TUB!! Needless to say it ended up being one our best vacations ever…very, very comfortable. When booking our trip for this year, we checked the rates and it was waaaaay out of our price range but we would love to stay there again. If we were to ask at check in (at the caribbean beach) if it would be possible to upgrade to Old Key West villa…do you think they would do it and at what charge? Would they charge us the full rate or give us a break? It’s going to be the week before president’s day. Any advise would be wonderful. That hot tub was well worth it!!! lol.

A: No, you got bumped because they overbooked, their mistake. If you ask to get upgraded, first of all of course, they might have no rooms and can’t. Second of all, if they can, they will most definitely charge you the price difference.

Have you considered looking at hotels off of Disney property that have hot tubs? It will be cheaper.

Q: Why do resorts near beaches have pools?
I just went to Los Cabos and stayed at the Playa Grande Resort and spa and it was beautiful. We had a great time, but I was wondering why they put in these fabulous pools when the ocean blue beach is only a few steps away? There were alot of people by the pool but the water and beaches there are so great why would you waste it at the pool?

A: Specifically for Playa Grande, Solmar, Finisterra and Pueblo Bonito Sunset Beach is because swimming in the Pacific Side is very dangerous, the waves break right there, and the slope is to deep. You don’t feel the bottom, and people get desperate and drown.

Q: What is the best resort to stay at in NEGRIL JAMAICA?
It will be myself (age 21) and boyfriend (Age 33) traveling to Jamaica. His FIRST time but I’ve been there often. We debating Negril as our VACA spot, seeing how we love the beach wayyyy more than a pool. We want all inclusive (Departing June 11 or 12) only 4* and up. If you would recommend any resort in Negril Jamaica which one would it be and why??

Thank-you–P.S. we’re young and like to enjoy ourselves- No kids are coming with us.

A: We haved stayed at Sandals, Hedo II and Breezes Grand Resort and Spa and had a great time at all of them. We love Negril. Sandals is offering at 65% of deal. Hedo II and Breezes with Superclubs is offering every 4th night free. Check out the reviws on the link below.

Q: Has anyone ever stayed at this resort in St. Lucian?
The Sandals Grande St. Lucian Spa and resort? In the Ultra Luxury Beach Rondoval Suite w/ Private Plunge Pool and whirlpool? If you have I would love to know what you thought about it and if you had any suggestions on whether you would recommend staying there or not? If yes why and if not why,please I need some help deciding on a Honeymoon spot and so far this is my top choice!
Thanks for any help given!
Also would you recommend your favorite place to stay while traveling to these places? I really would like all- inclusive, I hear that is a much better deal if you drink and well I drink! And it seems soo much easier to have all food and drinks paid for! I like the idea of knowing it’s all paid for- except for the extras we do.

A: I haven’t stayed at that resort but I’ve seen it and been around St Lucia. I find the whole island to be very depressing. It is a very beautiful island and a great botannical garden that Napoleon’s Josephine gave to the people. Touring the island by helicopter is cool. And some great restaurants. But the people have about 48% unemployment and it shows in their attitude. Everyone looks miserable.
Dasheen is a fabulous restaurant to eat and see the sunset (make a reservation).
I didn’t care for the island near as much as other islands I have been to and wouldn’t go back.
Have you looked at Tahiti? Fantastic place for a honeymoon. Takes a good chunk of money though. Bora Bora or Huahine or do both. Maybe even Vahini Island Resort for two nights, then Huahine then Bora Bora. You will love those places. About 10 to 12 grand for 10 nights would cover everything..
St Lucia has “Jump Up” street dances at night and very very loud music that the locals do and last al night because too many people have no reason to get up in the morning.
If you want no crowds try the Bahamas, like Eleuthera, rent a house on a beach where you will see no one at all probably. Great honeymoon for just the two of you. Super friendly people. My vote is Eleuthera or Tahitian Islands for a honeymoon.

Q: Which Cancun All Inclusive resort do you prefer and why? Palace chain or Riu Chain?
Which Riu (ie. Riu Las Americas) or Palace (ie. Moon Palace) do you prefer and why? Which is the better value? Is it true you can stay at one of the resorts in a chain and still use all the rest of them for free? Which has better beaches. If you also have another all inclusive- family friendly resort you prefer please let me know. Which resort has the best beaches? Thanks!

A: Hello,
I would DEFINITELY go to the RIU Las Americas.The Riu is in the heart of the Hotel Zone and has therefor the WAY BETTER location.Plenty of Bars,Restaurants,Shopping-malls and so on and so on are within walking distance.The luxurious ambiance is overwhelming and the food is excellent.The Moon Palace on the other hand is outside Cancun.In order to go to the city ….or better to say anywhere… you have to take a taxi.It is a nice hotel as well…no doubt.But in the “Las Americas” you will feel more special.
If you stay at the RIU Las Americas you can use the other RIU hotels (RIU Cancun and RIU Caribe) free of charge.If you would stay in the Caribe or the Cancun you are NOT allowed to use the Las Americas.I’m not sure how it is in the Palace chain.
The beach is nice at both places.At the Riu you will have a view over to Isla Mujeres…which is a very nice scenery.
Another reason I would prefer the Riu: it’s not a timeshare.I hate it being invited to one of their presentations 3 times a day.

as always I apologies for my English.

Greetings from Mexico and have a nice vacation,
cancundivers

Q: What “moderate” Disney Resort is nicest?
I am planning a small getaway and am wanting to stay in a “moderate” Disney resort. (Coronado Springs,Caribbean Beach, Port Orleans Riverside or French Quarter. I have stayed at all but Caribben Beach (my mom says it’s run down)and I really like both Port Orleans’ hotels. Which should I stay at and why?
I ended up at the Coronado. Since they (and Caribbean) were the only ones giving Florida resident discounts for Memoral Day weekend. Thanks guys!

A: All the resorts have their benefits and which one is nicest, I think, has a lot to deal with personal preference. One of the biggest differences between them is theme, but this is obviously not the most important factor when looking into a hotel.

Caribbean Beach is the oldest moderate resort, so it is not in as good of shape as the others, but it still tends to be pretty popular. There was a time not too long ago when the resort was really struggling and there was question of whether or not they could keep it open. Disney is in the process now of coming up with ways to improve the resort and make it more appealing, as well as working on plans for rennovations. Also, Caribbean is huge, so you definitely want to book the preferred room if you will be staying there. When you are ready to go and excited to get to the parks in the morning, the walk is fine. But after you walk the parks all day, are tired and want to get back to your room, it isn’t quite as fun. If it were me, I don’t think I would choose Caribbean as my first choice, though many people do love the resort.

Having stayed at the other moderates, I’m sure you realize the benefits of each. My personal favorite is Coronado. I like the theme, I like that is has more options when it comes to dining, service has always been good, rooms clean, etc. The biggest benefit, in my opinion, to Coronado is that it is a conference resort. This means that there tends to be more adults at the resort, which makes it a little more quiet and relaxing. Also, during the day, when people are at parks and the rest of them are in conferences, the resort is really quiet and a great place to relax, a lot of times you have the pool to yourself. Because it is a conference resort, it does have a few little extras to make it a little more like a deluxe resort.

Port Orleans is great as well. Biggest benefit here is the boat to Downtown Disney, it’s a nice ride, and very relaxing. Also, the resort grounds is a little smaller, so you don’t have as far as a walk for most things. But, it is still big, not small in any means. Also, with the French Quarter you have the nicer pool, which is a big hit for kids, which can also mean more families stay there. Coronado isn’t quite as popular for kids with pools and things, but still is a great choice for families. The food court here is also pretty nice, not a sit-down meal or anything like that, but the food is pretty good, considering.

If it were me, I would choose Coronado, just because it is my favorite moderate. But I think the important thing is to decide which one is going to be the best for you.

Good luck with your decision and have a great time!

Q: Which all-inclusive Palace resort is better?
I am trying to plan my honeymoon in April and my fiance has the option to stay at any Palace resort in Cancun. It turns out there are quite a few to choose from (Moon, Sun, Beach, Cancun, Vallarta, etc.). I understand we can travel between the resorts, but I wanted to get an idea from people that have actually been there to compare. Which ones did you like better and why?

Most important to us are food and a good atmosphere for a honeymoon.

Thanks in advance for your help!

A: The Sun Palace is now a couples only resort, (no kids) it is located in the hotel zone.The Sun Palace has been renovated recently. All of the Palace resorts are great the other cool thing is that if you are staying at one you can visit and enjoy the all-inclusives at all of the resorts. I suggest you spend a few days in Cancun and maybe a few days in Playa Del Carmen at the Playacar Palace, from Playa you can take the ferry over to Cozumel and check out the Cozumel. (Cozumel Palace is walking distance from ferry dock) Playa is close to Tulum, Xel-Ha, Coba, and right next to Xcaret. All are tours you may want to take in while you are enjoying your honeymoon. (Playatrips.com)
You may want to see if you can split the resort time between Cancun and Playa.

Cancun is more of a club atmosphere, very spring break-ish. Playa is more of a laid back small town atmosphere, small bars, restaurants and shops. They are only 35 miles apart, and Cozumel is directly across from Playa.

Q: What Is Your Favorite Deluxe Disney Resort?
I need to know what your favorite Deluxe Disney resort is, Wilderness Lode, Polynesia, Grand Flor….etc. I’m staying at the Villas at Wilderness Lodge, but I want to know what your favorite is and why. Also if you’ve ever stayed at a Disney Timeshare (Boardwalk, Beach Club, Saratoga, Old Key West, etc…) tell me about it and why you liked it so much, or why you didn’t. Thks in advance!
I need to know what your favorite Deluxe Disney resort is, Wilderness Lode, Polynesia, Grand Flor….etc. I’m staying at the Villas at Wilderness Lodge, but I want to know what your favorite is and why. Also if you’ve ever stayed at a Disney Timeshare (Boardwalk, Beach Club, Saratoga, Old Key West, etc…) tell me about it and why you liked it so much, or why you didn’t. Thks in advance! And I might add…..MONEY IS NOT AN OBJECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A: My favorite Deluxe Disney Resorts are the Villas at the Wilderness Lodge and the Old Key West Resort. I am a Disney Vacation Club member, and I have stayed at these resorts. I like the Villas at the Wilderness Lodge a lot because I had stayed at the Wilderness Lodge before, and I loved the atmosphere- the old-style feel of a Yellowstone-type lodge, complete with surrounding trees and a lake, a great swimming pool area, nice restaurants, a convenient place for quick snacks, and nice music amid an American Indian motif in the lobby. Super cool. The difference between the ‘Inn’ at the Wilderness Lodge and the Villas is that I found the rooms at the Inn to be rather small. The room was in a great location (pool view), but for the money I wondered about the value at the time. The accomodations at the Villas, on the other hand, were spectacular. The inside of the one bedroom Villa made my Mom not even want to leave the room, it was so nice and nicely-decorated. In the general store you can get free DVD rentals when staying at this resort! With the Villas, you get the beauty of the Inn, but with the much better (and larger) accomodations that the Villas offer. I have also stayed at a studio at this resort, and while the one bedroom blows it away, it is still nicer than the Inn.

My other favorite resort, the Old Key West Resort, is perfect if you want larger accomodations in a Vacation Club resort, for a cheaper price. This resort is also much quieter than the others, so if you like a place to just relax, but still be within quick striking distance of all of the Disney attractions, this is your resort. You can park your car and keep it parked there for the length of your stay- bus stops are conveniently located throughtout all areas of the resort, and run every 20 minutes to every theme park and Downtown Disney.

I have stayed at the Boardwalk, and it was nice because of the Boardwalk area outside. If you stay there, you can always run outside til midnight to get a slice of pizza (the best thing). You can also easily walk around the way to the back entrance of EPCOT- puts you in the World Showcase. If you are a big sports fan, the ESPN Club is right there on the Boardwalk, which is really good during playoffs of whatever sports that you are into. Late at night, Jellyrolls is a great place to go listen to the dueling pianos and sing along while having some beers. Atlantic Dance is a great place to take your special someone for a late-night twirl. The great thing about Boardwalk is that you don’t have to be a resort guest to enjoy all of these things that I just mentioned. I always drive up to Boardwalk and enjoy it for a few hours.

I haven’t stayed at Beach Club or Saratoga Springs yet, although I have toured the Saratoga Springs, and it is nice.

Q: Which is a better all-inclusive resort in the Dominican Republic? Casa Marina in Sosua or Hamaca in Boca Chica?
Can someone that has been to at least one of these all-inclusive resorts give their experience there and tell me what it is that they liked most about the resort and the surrounding area?

I have a feeling that Casa Marina is better than the Hamaca but I have never stayed at Casa Marina but have stayed at the Hamaca. How would you compare the beaches of the two resorts? I have a feeling that Casa Marina has a much better beach but I want a second opinion on this too. I have been to Playa Sosua which is very close to the beach of Casa Marina and I liked the beach of Playa Sosua much better than the warm waters of the beach of Boca Chica. My impression of the beach of Boca Chica is that it is polluted and smells kinda foul while I thought that Playa Sosua was a much cleaner beach.

If anyone has been to both resorts or even just one of those resorts then please give me your opinion of the place. Which place would you rather stay and why?

A: What you are considering “better” is really subjective. I had to laugh when I read your post, because Boca Chica is the sex (read prostitute) capital of the South, while Sosua, is the sex capital of the North. Both places should be avoided.

If you have no trouble dealing with “ladies” in both areas, then be my guest. The Bay in Sosua is wonderful. By far, the water is clearer and there is more sea life if you are a diver. If you care to venture outside of the resort, there is a small town there that basically caters to tourists. Lots of small and nice little restaurants and shops everywhere to buy souvenirs. There are are also some pretty ragging nightclubs in Sosua also. If you can overlook the sex tourism here, or have no problem with it, the clubs in Sosua can be packed and fun!

Boca Chica is probably the worst beach in the DR. It’s considered the “city beach” of Santo Domingo. However, the Oasis Hamaca is on the far end of the beach, and the nicest area of Boca Chica by far. There are guards and a small concrete wall, keeping the vender’s and prostitutes from coming onto the grounds of the Hamaca. The beach area at the Hamaca is actually very very nice. Beside a pool, you can eat dinner on a pier built up over the water. And during the day, there are beds on stilts located in the ocean which you can use to tan.

Outside of the resort, there is really nothing to do. No clubs, night life, or much to see at all. Venture outside the hotel if you want to get a glimpse of typical Dominican life. One thing that Boca Chica is known for in addition to sex tourism, is fried fish! For about $10USD they deep fry Parrot fish on the main beach. It’s the only place in the country that does it, and its very good.

If you ever want to consider going to another part of the island, mainly Punta Cana Bavaro area on the East Coast, you may want to check out this website. It can be very affordable there and is much nicer that either Sosua and Boca Chica.

Q: Can anyone answer my Atlantis Resort quesitons?
My mom and I might be heading out to Atlantis Resort in the Bahamas this August. I have a few questions that I can’t seem to get answered by anyone. I hope someone can help me here! Here are the questions:

-If I stay at the Beach Tower in Atlantis, what exactly am I paying for? I mean, do I get access to the aquariums, water parks, beaches, movie theater, etc?
-Someone told me about registering yourself as an Atlantis guest. Where, when, and why should I do that?
-The prices are a bit cheaper on hotels.com and I would like to make reservations through them. Has anyone done this before or know if it will effect anything like what is provided, etc?

Thank you to anyone who can help me with these!

A: If you are staying in the beach towers…I not positive, but I think you have access to everything the Atlantis has to offer. I know you do in the Royal Towers. Don’t know about the registering question and sometimes if you go to the Atlantis website, they have great 3 and 4 night deals. Have fun, the resort is awesome!!!

Q: Which country in Latin America do you recommend to a solo traveler like me?
I do not understand Spanish at all and I do not want to stay in a 5-star resort. Safety is my big concern. I am more interested in landscape and culture than beach. I may stay in the country for one week or two. Several places are on my mind, including Cuba, Argentina, Chile, Panama, Venezuela, Mexico, Columbia and Bolivia. Thus, which country do you recommend to me and why?

A: panama and mexico are your best choices
both are welcoming and used to turists so language should not be a problem. panama is used to americans because of the whole panama cannal. mexico is right on the border. for a more authentic hispanic experience i would try panama because its more in the heart of latin america and more tropical so you’ll have AMAZING beaches.

colombia…although beautiful
i do not reccomend due to your concern about safety
i am from colombia so its not like i’m being racist or anything.
the country is going through a very long and dangerous war. i think the stats are something like 3000 kidnappings per day. i really wish i could go but my own family wouldn’t let me.

Q: Why am I having these dreams? (warning, long)?
My boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago, and I’m over him, I’m totally sure about that, but my dreams seem to think otherwise.
He’s with me again, and everything is back to normal. We are sitting somewhere, just cuddling and talking, and then I remember that he broke up with me. So I ask him why he’s hugging me and kissing me if we are broken up. He makes up some lame excuse about that he just didn’t love me, but he does again, or something similar to that. Then I wake up, really confused and hurt. That was the first couple nights.

About on the third night, I would wake up, confused and hurt, but it would be in the middle of the night. I’d go to the washroom, and then go back to sleep, but then I would have more dreams. The second dreams were that I was being chased by two guys, and they were trying to rape me. I always got away in time and woke up – for good this time – in a huge panic.

Last night I had a dream that we were at this resort. I was staying with my family, and he was staying with his. There were these huge beach parties, and lots and lots of people went. Me and him went together, and we were dancing and what not. After a while I got tired and decided to go back to my room, but he wanted to stay and dance more, so everything was okay. The next morning, in the dream, I went back and there were a lot of people drunk and passed out, but he was passed out INSIDE some other girl, who he was sleeping beside, naked of course. I started to cry, and he woke up I started to yell and hit him, asking why he would cheat on me, he again, started to make some lame excuse, but I woke up.
After that, I fell asleep again, and had a dream that I was being dragged into a car by two guys, and I was with a friend this time. They were trying to rape us, but a cop showed up, and I woke up really disturbed, from both dreams.

Please, I need them to stop, it’s really starting to affect me. Can you tell me why I’m having these dreams? And how to stop them?

Thanks in advance.
I don’t know the men chasing me, they are just random people that I bump into in the dream. Like in the first time, I was lost and they offered a ride, but I said no and I started running away from them, and the second time, they were in the same store as me. I just want these stupid dreams to go away, they are really making me upset!

A: Evanjeli,
I am a Mental and Spiritual Healer; that’s what I do for a living. Dream analysis is ONE very important part of the work I do. Beth Coleman says ‘you can’t stop a dream’ and girlygirl says try to think about other things (pleasurable unworrying things if possible) before you go to sleep. Well, I SAY: you CAN stop a persistent dream from conitnuing to trouble you – by UNDERSTANDING it! … seems to me that’s the whole problem here for you, isn’t it? Okay, well, the emotion of these dreams is every bit as important as the content (it always is!).

You didn’t say why you broke up with your ex-boyfriend, or whether it was you or he who broke it off (you did say he broke with you – but not whether you really wanted that at the time?). You are completely over him, you say. But was there pain and heartache for you – and is it still (be honest with yourself about this) hurting? Do you feel regret?

Yelling at him and hitting him: did this actually happen when you were together? If so – how did you feel at the time? Angry? Jealous? You didn’t say whether there was another girl (did you feel he ACTUALLY cheated on you when you were together)?
The lame excuses – are these telling you about something not altogether upfornt between you about your emotions when you were together? And about the need for YOU to be ‘upfront’ with yourself about your emotions now?

Dreaming that you are back together – but then you aren’t really, in you dream, cos it all goes quickly weird and pear-shaped doesn’t it? Is that how it ACTUALLY was when you were together?

Being pursued and managing (or just about managing) to escape is a very common motif in all kinds of dreams. It nearly always indicates something inside (often emotionally) that you either cannot quite face up to (or feel you must run away from) or else it means not confronting some part of yourself – in this case, perhaps, your emotional strengths (which are probably a LOT greater than you realise) ….

Dreams of being raped (or, more significantly here ALMOST raped) are also not uncommon themes. They are not usuually sexual in their significance – but could here, I think, point to extremely strong emotions which you run from or are afraid to deal with. True? The cop showing up suggests that you can SAFELY deal with these and find the strength within you. The figure of authority is yourself: you WILL know when you are doing the right thing!

The recurrent ‘two guys’ pursuing you? Difficult to be sure (without knowing a little more). Could there have been a ‘love triangle’ in this situation somehwere (for you or for your ex – or both of you, even)? The fact that these were menacing could also mean several different things. Could they be, again also, at least in part, what you need to (but are afraid to directly) face up to? Was there any responsibilty on your side in this whole break up? If so, perhaps you haven’t dealt with your OWN emotions about this? The other girl he was INSIDE ( that was clealry very emphatic in your dream) – this could mean several things … he is ‘inside’ a relationship with someone else? Or, at any rate, as ‘out of’ you as it is now possible to be. It still makes you cry. Perhaps you should actually TRY to release more of the grief. HEALING tears can actually be very therapeutic. It could also mean you must ‘get out’ what is ‘inside’ you!

The people around and the dancing – and it was ‘okay’ .. for a while: I think this shows that a return to normalcy is possibe; for you, your heart, your emotions and your everyday life. I think it means you will not topple down into chronic grief (as some heartbroken people do), you are stronger than that! You seem clear that it’s over – your dreams are not, I don’t think, telling you that you want him back.They ARE telling you that you want (and can get!) your life back – and a reasonably happy one too (friends, dancing etc)!

I hope this helps you Evanjeli. “Many a tear has to fall – but it’s all in the game” (that is to say: the game of life, and the game of love!) – Cliff Richard sang these words LONG ago … but they’re still true! Good luck, dear.

Jeff Watt, Mental and Spiritual Healer

Q: Should I stay with her?
here some more info..

My girl who I’ve been with for 14 months just went on vacation with her family. While she was there (1 week) she met a guy who worked at the resort she stayed at. She told me about him when she was showing me her pictures from the trip. She told me he was a cool guy who showed her around at the resort. Well apparently he took her on a long walk along the beach..i dismissed that and didn’t worry about it. He would also take a taxi to the resort at night and hang out with my girlfriend..they probably went dancing..well she told me she danced a lot so i assume they did. So thats about everything i know that they did.

While she was gone i told myself i wouldnt worry about her cheating on me because i knew she loves me and wouldnt put our relationship to waste for a guy she meet far away. Well all of this changed after one day she was talking to some other guy she met on facebook chat. The guy didnt speak english so she had me translate for her.

Well the guy asked her:
So what happened with you and carlos?

she said: he worked

Thats where my alarms went off..what kinda question is that? Seriously. I like how she didnt say: Nothing happened, i dont know why you’d ask that. No she didnt even say that.

Well I didnt say anything to her at the moment because i wanted to see what else he’d say.

Well later that night she was reading her email and i saw an email from carlos with the title RE: I miss you.

This is where i got super suspicious. Well one day she read her email on my computer but forgot to close it properly. Well i found myself with her inbox..there was no way in hell i’d let that chance go. I know it was wrong to read her email but it felt like she was screwing me over and that would be the only way to unmask her.

So i read all her emails from carlos..i actually copied them to notepad

Apparantly they’ve been sending eachother pictures. She sent one of her and i and she referred to me as her “best friend” instead of saying thats my boyfriend and i. She took pictures of him and called him handsome <3.

she also said: I miss you every day, I hope I can see you again, everything reminds me of you.

she also said:I miss you, I can’t stop thinking about you.

and right now i just found something i didnt read before:
I miss your besos y abrazos

I miss your hugs and kisses..whoever doesnt speak spanish

On her facebook her status is always the lyrics of some song:
I’ve still got sand in my shoes
And I can’t shake the thought of you.

Thats obviously not about me.

Its funny cause the emails that dumb ass sends her dont even make sense cause he cant even speak english so he uses a translator. But he always told her he wanted to see her again and that he loved her a lot and that he missed her and all the crap.

Now we talked and i told her i read her email..she got really mad. and i was really sorry for reading it..i still am.

She denied that she cheated on me or that she had any kind of romance with that guy. How can she deny she didnt have a thing with him? No guy goes that crazy for a girl he considers a friend.But yeah we talked and we decided not to break up. But now I think something happened and after reading that part i hadnt read before im pretty sure she cheated on me. I miss your hugs and kisses? that gives it away.

Now the same thing happened when she went on a school trip to africa last april..she got close with some guy.

She cheated on me before too but i decided to forgive her. She said that she’d never cheat on me again..she said that after the resort thing..thats what she tried reassuring me with that nothing happened on her trip.

I’m super nice to my girlfriend. I take her out for nice dinners like every 2 weeks. I study with her. I help her with school whenever she needs help. I go watch her when she plays sports. I dont swear at her. I open the passenger door of the car for her and then go around to get in. I try to be a complete gentleman with her. I dont even talk to other girls as much as i used to. I try to be the best i can be.

The only thing i think i do wrong is that i’m jealous..but who wouldn’t be with a girl that only has guy friends?

What should i do? I love this girl more than anything..and leaving her would really hurt. It hurts me to think she’d throw away 14 months away for a guy she met in vacation. I’ve never ever cheated on her and i never would. But seriously i dont know what to do…cause im starting to think i deserve better than her.

Ever since she came back shes been acting different.

Any help?

Sorry about the long post..i thought it’d be important so people understand my situation beter.

Thanks

A: yes you should

Q: Location for destination wedding – paying for guests rooms?
I am getting ready to start planning destination wedding. We have not chosen the location yet but I’m thinking the carribbean. We would like to pay for some/all of our guests’ rooms (up to 50 people). I originally wanted to rent a villa but can’t seem to find any to accomodate that many people. Does anyone have any recommendations on a location/resort where I can get a good price for such a large group? I have heard that weddings at the chain resorts like Sandals and Beaches are very cookie cutter which is why I was thinking a villa would be better. Does anyone know of a large villa that is part of a resort? Maybe some guests can stay at the hotel and family in the villa? I am open to any ideas/recommendations.
How long ago were you at Sam lords castle? The site is not working and the few reviews I found are not so hot.

A: Sam’s Castle in Barbados would work wonderfully. We stayed there on our honeymoon and saw a bridal party in action.

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